Thursday, 17 January 2013
Gori! Gori! Gori!
Just Another quick blog post before I disappear for a while.
Now, I love my mother, I really do. Well I would come across like a bit of an ingrate if I did
not lovethe woman that labored under immense pain to give birth to a gremlin like me. But
like every other person, she has her own faults. She is to put it bluntly, a bit of a racist. I can
recall having many conversations with her, which ended up with her warning how lecherous
white girls are and how she would tell me in a matter of fact way, that they are gold diggers. I
think my mother was brought to this world with her irony meter broken. She would often
complain about the racism meted out to her in New Zealand, while pushing these awful stereotypes
about white people. I know why stereotypes are formed, it is easy to generalize, But it is generally
a good idea to not hold much water in them.
In my humble opinion, encumbering a certain ethnicity with your own prejudices is never a good
I remember a two years ago, being enamored with a certain Punjabi girl. When I asked her out,
she replied to me that she doesn't like mallu guys so wouldn't do so. Three months ago, I asked
out a certain acquaintance of mine, who was white, to go out to lunch with me. She looked at me
with her pretty blue eyes, and with a smile I thought at the time was really gorgeous that she wants
us just to be friends. Even though my heart sank, she comforted me by saying how girls would be
lucky to go out with me.
You cannot help who you fall in love with, you really can't. I find it a bit unfortunate that people
still hold onto these prejudices. For me, I do not care for a girl's ethnicity. The only thing I
need to know if she is compatible with me and loves me.